I'm sorry, but just to get a perspective call on this, you complained to the office of fair trading because he said you blustered??
Blustered = making small threats, going on a bit too long about a small thing...
It seems to me a very mild thing, and I'd respectfully suggest that you have totally lost perspective on it. Time to move on, make some money. You'll always find someone who doesn't like you somewhere - maybe they're right, maybe they're wrong?
After all, who cares if you bluster sometimes?? Don't we all? In fact, welcome to the human race, maybe you have a fault!! Congratulations, up till that moment I thought you were perfect!! Isn't it our faults that make us endearing, human and lovable?
Bear can be a little rude sometimes, no doubt about it. Silly man. But overall, he's a good moderator and quite wise in the scheme of things. Really, it's just not important - even people who are supposed to know stuff get things wrong sometimes!!
Sometime it's just about taking a long deep breath, laughing at your own folly and the folly of those around you ... and just getting on with it. If someone wants to be an idiot about something you said - just let go, let them do it, it doesn't reflect on you. (and half the time they just took you out of context anyway!)
Hey - have a fantastic Easter break. Hope you got lots of great eggs, plenty of good belly laughs, and some pleasant days outside.