Hey Steve, would't happen to have a link to that video would you? I think many people could benefit from it.
For us, going from being heard to being heard about actually requires a push from us to tell our customers to talk about us. It sounds silly to ask a customer to talk about you, but word of mouth is the best advertising. Offer an affiliate program if needed, but many customrs will do it for free as they too want you to be successful just like them.
We're all in it together in the hosting business. As a host becomes successful, they get better equipment, more staff and HOPEFULLY do not lose sight of who brought them to that level. We try to give back to our customers any chance we get, and even when buying things online, I try to buy from customers before searching the web. This speaks volumes for customer loyalty.
KNOWING your customers, and I mean really knowing them by name, family members or lifestyle etc is a HUGE benefit. Being able to relate to them in any manner is part of a good salesman, but caring is something different. Finding out that they had a death in the family, and sending a condolence card is something they do appreciate.
Sending out gifts (t-shirts, hats, mugs) or just a card to say thank you at a random time is welcomed by many and often gets THEM to talk about YOU when they say "look what my host sent me out of the blue"